Anyone that withholds the right from a mother to bury their child is a real piece of shit. You Suck!!
Let me provide the scenerio- A gentleman passes away suddenly, unexpectedly. Quite the shock to everyone. This gentleman was married however separated. He had personal issues but the final straw was when his “wife” decided to spread her joy for another man. I do admit the marriage was NOT perfect and both parties are guilty. The separation has been going on for 2 years and the only reason a divorce was not filed was simply due to finances. OH and she is an illegal immigrant. So there is that sticky matter. However, law is law and doesn’t matter who you’re fucking, they ARE legally married. Therefore, when one of them dies the spouse has rights over the remains. What a fucking scary thought?! It is NOT the parents or any other BLOOD relative. It is the ONE person who you are no longer with, the one person who is fucking someone else, the one person who has stated on many occassions to get the hell out of their life, wants nothing to do with you, that one person has all the power over you on your death bed, your remains – this person decides YOUR fate!! Personally , I think if a couple is separated and living completely separate lives then either party forfiets to have the “authority” or “right” to decide someone’s fate on a medical emergency or after death. Do you see where I am going with this?
I am rambling- my thoughts are scrambled and honestly I really can’t think straight because the injustice of this just blows my mind. There is a grieving mother suffering horribly because she cannot bury her son. The estranged wife refuses to give this grieving mother his ashes. WHY? you ask. to put it simply because she loves the power, loves the control. The wife wanted NOTHING to do with her husband. She moved on- built another life with another man. So I am trying to wrap my head around WHY she wants the ashes? Is she gonna put them on the mantel in the house she shares with her boyfriend? Or is she gonna put them on her night stand so she can blow him a kiss before she fucks her boyfriend? Exactly what is the purpose for her to have these ashes? She didn’t want him alive but now she wants him in death? To make matters worse, to put a cherry on this shit sundae the wife involves her boyfriend into this crazy drama!
Listen here sweetheart- you need to make up your mind- Are you going to be his girlfriend or a proper wife to your dead husband? Can’t be both.
Now mind you the mother paid to have her son cremated but is denied access to his ashes. The estranged wife made false promises and told the mother anything she wanted to hear so she didn’t have to foot the bill. (sigh) it always comes down to money doesn’t it? As shitty as it is the law states the legal spouse has the right to the ashes. The wife can do whatever she wants with the ashes. I am begininng think she does not possess a soul.
My question to you – What kind of sick, twisted, horrible person DENIES a mother her son’s ashes to have him buried??