I always get a kick when I talk to people about experiencing a “lesbian” act. What the fuck is a “lesbian” act? Does gender determine it or the act? Must be the gender because a man eating pussy is just that eating pussy. However, when a woman eats pussy it is a “lesbian act”. What the fuck ever! eating pussy is just that …. eating pussy.
Last week among a group of friends we all debated about this very topic. One friend who lets call Lisa stated she has never been with a woman in any capacity. I laughed because I know for a fact she has. In fact, it was a couple of months ago she rather enjoyed having her clit flicked by a woman in a very crowded dance club. I am pretty sure “being with a woman” that particular click flicking qualifies. However, she stated that was just for fun and in the moment. She further explains that is not a lesbian act. Again, it is all about perspective. Just like when some women claim to be virgins but they suck a mean dick, chow down on pussy like a $2.99 all you can eat buffet, or get it up the ass 3 to 4 times a week. But hey, she is a virgin because a dick never broke the hymen. The word virgin sparks images of pure, prude, clean, and unexperienced. Let me tell ya- that “virgin” probably has more experience than my dick experienced cunt any day. With that being said- brings me to my point regarding labels. Beware of labels. They are deceiving because the label is only correct when the label is established by the person who judges. Think on that…..