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Nothing To You; Something To Me

I can’t tell what my reality contains. One foot in reality, the other in my fantasy. Which is real? It is hard to say anymore. Everywhere I turn someone is offended by something so the best option is silence? Maybe this is the plan all along….. We are being conditioned ( by whom? ) to become an unsocial world. Put a covering over your face, stand at least 6 ft away, wash your hands, don’t…

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Jennifer Lifestyle

Invasion of the Body Snatcher

In the begining there was my girlfriend, who then became my wife and is now becoming my husband. No one, and I mean NO ONE can fully prepare you for the transition journey let alone BEING the spouse of someone who is transitioning. I have the upmost respect and love for anyone going through their own transition. It is NOT easy. It is confusing, heartbreaking, frustrating, lonely, and awkward. I don’t know ANYONE who would…

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Deep Thinking

Selfish??

I hide from the news, social media, and as of late, my own damn phone.  Everytime I turn around there is someone or some group telling me what matters-       black lives, trans lives, police lives, save the whales, save the turtles, smile more, connect with the universe, don’t offend, speak up, be silent, and on and on it goes………………….. fuck!  IF they are so concerned about what I am doing or there a…

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Kai

Small Moments – By Kai

Do you ever feel like you live a separate life from the people closest to you in your life?? I feel that way very often, it is very common! I have come to realize inconvenience or being uncomfortable is a huge factor for most people. I am a person that gets along with anyone and will do anything to make the people I love or am close to happy. There are moments I am in…

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Toxic Friendships

How do we really know if our “friendships” are healthy?  Friends are there for you no matter what. They will walk the ends of the earth with you, take arms and fight beside you on any matter, they will back you whether you are wrong or right, they love you unconditionally, and will hurt anyone who hurts you, they will be there if your heartbroken, but they will surely be there to accept you when…

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Just a Thought

My goal is to write something every day but today I got nada, zilch, zero, big fat fucking nothing. I am literally sitting here on my second-hand couch staring out the window with a million things flooding my thoughts but unable to lock in on one. I hate this kind of day where I am pissed off at the world and pissed off my coffee has gotten cold. It is just THAT kind of day.…

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Letter to My Readers…..

Hello everyone, I admire your bravery for entering into my world. What a brave, brave soul you are…..(insert chuckle). Ok- so with that…… let’s continue on with this letter 😉 Often times my thoughts are scattered, irrational, emotional, and sarcastic. I spend more time rationalizing them trying to convince myself that I am normal and everyone thinks like me; THEY just DON’T want to ADMIT it. Just like no one wants to admit they pick…

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Jennifer

Tis only the beginning

I have known Kai for 9 years, married for 3. If anyone would have told me I would marry a female I wouldn’t have believed you. Being brought up in a liberal household I was never restricted in my views and yes, raised to know that color, sex, or religion does NOT matter. We are ALL human and everyone should be treated with kindness and respect. It’s called MANNERS! Before I get on my soap…

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